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PLEASE READ THE RULES & GUIDELINES BEFORE ENTERING THE ROOM
Maison de mille étés is based on a more traditional style of BDSM where Dom/me's and subs make formal entrances, exits and serves, scenes, punishments, task, assignment and chores are routine within the house. Though Y/you will hear every day chat mixed in along with other activities.
All L/ladies are welcomed here whether Y/you're into the lifestyle or Y/you're looking for a place to visit with friends and relax.
G/gentlemen are welcomed in the room with an invitation and upon approval of the room owner. Keep in mind this is a L/ladies room and is governed by the L/ladies of the house. If for any reason the L/ladies are uncomfortable with the presence of a G/gentleman Y/you will be asked to leave. The L/ladies rule the house and the L/ladies word is final.
This is a list of basic guidelines to help new BDSM participants find T/their way around the chat room without embarrassment. These rules are intended to help O/one understand the D/s lifestyle and all of its formalities. O/one will learn what is acceptable, and what is not when approaching a Dom/me or sub/slave. This will also help O/one survive in a new room where the regular chatters have no tolerance for disrespect. This is not intended as training--that will be learned from a Master, Mistress or M/mentor.
• WARNING! The Moderators in the room will enforce strict adherence to these guidelines. T/they will give ONE warning- if that is not heeded, T/they will not hesitate to boot Y/you from the room if proper respect is not shown to A/all.
• RESPECT. First & foremost remember that the P/people in the room are serious about T/their lifestyle. BDSM is consensual. NEVER force Y/yourself upon A/another. Remember at all times there is a living, breathing P/person on the other side of the screen. Treat T/them with respect, and Y/you will be honored with the same in return.
• Dom/me or sub? Are Y/you a Dominant or a submissive?Look deep into Y/your soul for the answer. When Y/you know the answer Y/you will need a name. Choose one that reflects Y/your personality. Choose something original, as Y/your name is the first thing P/people will notice.
• The significance of Capital & lowercase lettering. Capitalization is almost always exclusive to Dom/mes. If You are a Dom/me, the first letter of Your name should be capped. Dom/mes do not use all lowercase letters in Their names.
Almost all submissives use lowercase lettering. A sub should never capitalize themselves when saying i, me, my, etc. and always cap the Dom/me when saying You, Your, She, Him etc. This shows deference to the Dom/mes even in text.
Keep this in mind when entering Y/your chat name. There are exceptions, of course. But as a new sub, you should use lowercase just to avoid confusion. This will also help Y/you to identify the O/other Y/you seek. If one is looking for a Dom/me, one need not waste time approaching people with lowercase names.
• Greetings. When addressing E/everyone in a room, or making general statements, include the capital and lowercase to indicate Y/you are addressing Dom/mes & subs. This way N/no one is omitted from the query or comment.
ALWAYS address a Domme as Ma'am, or m'Lady. Doms should be addressed as Sir, or m'Lord. Some Dom/mes consider the use of the names Mistress or Master exclusive to Their own subs. Using them is not recommend unless asked to do so, or until you, the sub, feel comfortable in doing so.
• The Approach. The best way to find a Dom/me or sub is to observe a chat room. Just sit back and watch quietly. Y/you will see certain P/people start to emerge from the crowd. If You are a Dom/me remember that the sub has the right to terminate the conversation at their discretion. These are real people with emotions, and what You do or say could damage them--so take extra care in Your dealings with them.
If you are a sub, it is not wise to offer yourself up to the room. Find a Dom/me that looks interesting and address Them individually. you may know rejection at first, but with that comes strength. Be patient, build the trust. Treat this as you would in r/t. you are entrusting this Person with your life. Choose carefully.
• Collars. A collared sub is someone who has chosen to give them self to ONE Person exclusively. The collar may or may not be worn in their name. Examples of collars are as follows: Amanda's eve, or eve{A}. These collars are treated as seriously as wedding vows. If one is collared, DO NOT attempt to approach them. See them only as friends, and search elsewhere. The O/others in the room are very protective, and will not hesitate to berate Y/you publicly for harassing them.
If Y/you are serious about a D/s lifestyle, and would like to chat effectively, take these rules to heart. Y/you will stand out amongst the O/others and find a P/partner to explore to the limits of Y/your imagination & beyond.
• The Golden Rule : Keep it Safe, Sane and Consensual
Do Not Interrupt and an on going scene or attempt to enter a scene unless Y/you are invited. Please keep chat to a minimum while a scene is taking place, it would be preferable to take the conversation in private until the scene is completed.
Scenes are to be of BDSM content.
If Y/you come here looking just for cyber sex Y/you've come to the wrong room. There are plenty of other chat sites that can accommodate Y/you for those purposes.
Do Not PM (whisper) without permission
No Dom/me's breaking Dom/me's.
No dots, symbols, single letter or anonymous names allowed.
No under age, scat, bestiality or toilet sex allowed.
Please keep avi's tasteful. No hard core porn or exposed genitalia
DRAMA WILL NOT BE TOLERATED. Take it outside of the room.
All Chat Emporium site rules apply. Please read them.
Have fun and enjoy Y/yourself.
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